Lessons I’m learning in my twenty’s

 Hey , there…I’m definitely trusting and believing that you are at your best.Well ,well I wanted to drag this introduction but I figured what if I forget my words ? Im generally laughing at myself for having such a thought yet let me just get to the business of this post.My life lessons as a 23 year old are quite a lot for someone who’s just only been in her twenty’s for just 4 years.Firstly I have learnt to have Jesus Christ as my firm foundation in everything I do.I trusted a lot of people especially older ones for my life journey yet it didn’t really help .Wild to say this but yes I respect elderly advice but I learnt that having a relationship with God will never lead you astray.Not to say I was lead astray yet humans can give advice based on emotions and moods.Some can give advice based on what they wish they accomplished yet God remains the same.His beautiful gift for us is the Holy Spirit.He helps us even on days when we can’t express ourselves and well this lesson I learnt from that was to always pray even when seeking for advice from elders pray.Pray that God drops his answers though them and that they do not become canal in their help.

Secondly (Friendship)

I am very big on this .Yet as I grow I am learning the most painful lesson which is that some will fall out along this growing journey and it’s okay to let them go.Also you need to be cautious of who you surround yourself with as you become who you surround yourself most of the time.As the saying goes “birds of the same feathers flock together “.So if you wanna reach your destination and become better be around people who have your best interests at heart.Im not saying force people to be like you .In simple terms be around people who will bring out the best in you and vice versa.Friendship is indeed a great concept although as I grow I’m actually having a triangle over a circle and if you knew me you would know how much I loved group friendships.I genuinely believe one should have a friend or friends as it benefits one largely .One reason being that you will have someone who will able to understand and listen to hear you more over rushing to advice you as you are most likely the same age.Its easier to be vulnerable and open enough to speak about every feeling to your peers better than when talking to someone older.So yes do have friends but don’t depend too much on them. As people do disappoint one time and again just know your limits.Be open to new friendships.Embrace all the sad and happy moments with friends.More importantly edify each over.Tell your friends how much they mean to you.Embrace them and love them loudly.Don’t let your history of friendship ruin what God can do.Always pray for your circle.

Lastly (Financial Freedom,budget and savings)

I am learning to speak towards the money I receive.I recently had a conversation with a friend about miss handling money and how I’m sometimes or to be honest most of the time I’m a reckless spender.She actually shared and said pray over your money especially when you receive it .Pray for it as you distribute it .Things like tithe ,offering or giving to someone in general ask God to multiple it for you .I was so amazed and told myself I wanna apply this concept.My lesson on saving is so simple never let your parents or friends know that you actually are saving .The moment you speak it out people assume you have millions and it makes it hard for you to say you don’t have when they actually are in financial distress.Having a budget can be so good so you are aware and you stick to the list over your desires.It helps greatly come I tell you.

Now go change your world with my 2 cents .I hope to see you and me evolve and grow together towards upgrading ourselves and become what God wants us to be .See you on the next blog

Love and light

Miss Valeria M