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Deconstructing from shame .

 Hey reading worm .I hope you are at best  and if not just know that it’s still okay to not be at your best. I have been having so many topics dropped by God and I was so excited and literally wanted to realise 3 blog posts in a day.Haha that’s how excited I was .Well this one stood out for me ”deconstructing yourself from shame”.How many of us go through the worst and end up labelling ourselves for our situations more than what God says we are. 

We often pick the worst sides of ourselves more than the best and we are often condemned to live under our shame .Yet , the truth is that we are bigger than that. Not everyone tells you this but I remember having a conversation with a friend about an awuful experience and how I felt so away from God .She literally shared a scripture that changed my whole life.I never looked back .I felt so free and alive .I could imagine if I choose to keep my feelings to myself I was probably gonna condemn myself.So also it’s important to have a community you trust and are free to be open to as the devil strives when one is alone. Not to say tell the whole world and also you not obligated but at least have that one person you trust and are able to speak to. It takes a lot of courage to let go of shame and things that make you feel less of what God says you are but we are more than what we went through that’s the bar .We are worthy of great things and also walking into the promise land.So why would we wanna bow to an experience which is only meant to last for a season and not our whole lives ?

Allow yourself to rediscover , rest and solitude . Allow yourself to bad  at something.Make mistakes , fall and stand back up . Fall in love with the process of being the best version of yourself and do not be apologetic about it.The nice part about all this is that the best time for new beginnings is whenever you want to start . So don’t pressure yourself. Stand up and deconstruct yourself from shame you are totally bigger than whatever it is that is making you feel empty or worthless.I leave you with this beautiful scripture (Genesis 1:26) 1.You are valuable because of who you are .You are made in God’s image, according to his likeness.So yes,  if you wanna be validated this is the line you are great and you are definitely gonna do great things.


With Love

Miss Valeria M



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